About Our Modern Marriage

A couple enjoying a cup of coffee, smiling at each other, during a couple's retreat hosted by Our Modern Marriage. In the background, a man and woman stand on a balcony with a scenic ocean sunset view.

Marriage doesn’t fall apart all at once.

Marriage doesn’t fall apart all at once.

More often, it fades quietly—under busy schedules, familiar routines, and the weight of everyday life. Two people can love each other deeply and still feel disconnected, distracted, or unsure how to create space for what once came naturally.

Our Modern Marriage exists for couples who don’t want to wait for something to be “wrong” before investing in their relationship.

We believe marriage doesn’t need fixing.
It needs attention. Intention. And moments that invite couples to slow down and truly see each other again.

Why We Created Our Modern Marriage

Our Modern Marriage was born from lived experience—not theory.

Like many couples, we’ve navigated seasons of closeness and seasons of distance. We’ve learned that connection doesn’t disappear because love is gone, but because life gets loud. Responsibilities multiply. Comfort zones shrink. And meaningful conversations get postponed in favor of convenience.

We created Our Modern Marriage to offer couples something different from traditional relationship advice or therapy-driven solutions.

No diagnosing.
No blame.
No pressure to “fix” each other.

Instead, we create space—physically and emotionally—for couples to reconnect through shared experiences, honest reflection, and intentional time together.

What Makes Our Retreats Different

Our couples retreats are designed to feel natural, not forced.

Set in beautiful, carefully chosen locations, each retreat blends luxury, relaxation, and guided experiences that encourage connection without putting couples on the spot. There are no awkward exercises or public confessions—just thoughtful prompts, shared moments, and opportunities to lean back into each other.

We focus on:

  • Presence over performance

  • Curiosity over correction

  • Shared moments over rigid outcomes

The result is a retreat experience that feels refreshing, grounding, and deeply human.

Who Our Modern Marriage Is For

Our Modern Marriage is for couples who:

  • Love each other, but want to feel closer

  • Feel secure in their relationship, yet crave deeper connection

  • Want to invest in their marriage before distance becomes disconnection

  • Value quality time, meaningful conversations, and shared experiences

Whether you’re newly married or decades into your journey, our retreats are designed to meet you exactly where you are.

Our Philosophy

We believe the strongest marriages are built in small, intentional moments.

A conversation you didn’t rush.
A hand you reached for.
A moment you chose presence over comfort.

Our Modern Marriage isn’t about becoming a “perfect” couple—it’s about choosing each other, again and again, with intention.

An Invitation

If you’re looking for a space to slow down, reconnect, and create meaningful memories together, we’d love to welcome you.

Not because something is broken—but because your marriage is worth tending to.

“Marriage isn’t the perfect farytale we’ve been told about. It’s a never ending endeavor of love and patience.”

— Robert Myrick